Smuggled sperm: Palestinians become dads from jail

"She's happy, we're happy, everybody's happy," says Dr. Salim Abu Khaizaran, who treats the wives of Palestinians being held in Israeli prisons.

 

TEL AVIV, Israel -- It is surely among the strangest jail break stories ever conceived: a daring escapade in which a determined band of young women beat one of the toughest security regimes in the world.

They are the wives of Palestinian prisoners held in Israeli jails – without the right to conjugal visits – who nevertheless claim to have become pregnant by their husbands.

This isn’t a case of the usual contraband sneaked into a jail to make life a little easier for inmates. It’s what is smuggled out that matters – the stuff of life itself.

Plenty think the plot is far-fetched, but the women insist that armed with little more than cunning and a concealed container, they can ensure that no wall or coil of barbed wire is a barrier to parenthood.

Faridah Ma’arouf laughed as she recalled hurrying out of the prison gates after visiting day was done, hiding a sample of her son’s sperm.

“We had a taxi waiting to take us very fast,’’ she said. “I thought I had to get it to the doctor quickly.’’

It seems to have been a successful operation. Three months later Ma’arouf sat in an IVF clinic where the progress of her daughter-in-law’s pregnancy was being monitored.

It is what could be described as the brainchild of Dr. Salim Abu Khaizaran, head of the Razan Center for Infertility in the Palestinian city of Ramallah on the West Bank.

“We are doing this to help these ladies because we feel as doctors that the wives of prisoners pay a very high price,” Abu Khaizaran said without revealing how many other such procedures he had conducted. “She has to wait for her husband, sometimes she can spend her lovely youth just waiting. And by the time her husband is out, many of them will not be able to have babies.”

NBC News

Faridah Ma'arouf says she smuggled a sample of her son's sperm out of Ofer Prison, above, so that her daughter-in-law could become pregnant.

He added: “The wives lose out twice because the community then pressurizes the husband to marry another woman in order to fulfill his requirements to become a father, which ... I feel is very sad.”

'What are you waiting for?'
Many of the men are serving long sentences for terrorist offenses.

Ammar Al-Zibben has been in prison for 16 years. He is serving 27 life sentences with an additional 25 years for plotting bomb attacks in Jerusalem that killed 21 people.

He is also the recent father of a baby boy, named Mohannad, who is just seven months old.

His wife, Dalal, 32, said the idea to go for IVF was originally her husband’s. The suggestion took her by surprise. She had expected opposition from family and friends in their conservative community.

“I was very surprised when I found them encouraging me enthusiastically,” she said. “Everyone said I should do it and not deny myself and my husband our basic right, to have a family.

“It reached a point where people would stop me in the street and ask me why I still hadn’t done it,” she added. “They would say to me, ‘What are you waiting for? Why are you wasting time?’”

Her husband got to see his son for the first time six months ago.

“The meeting was happy, sad, exciting. It was mixed with a lot of feelings and tears, I can’t describe to you how we both felt,’’ she said.

“I had sacrificed everything when my husband was arrested,” she said. “Now I have been given this opportunity to make my dreams come true, to have the family I always wanted. We will be waiting for my husband to come out and join us.’’

Near-miraculous conceptions
As word spread, the number of prisoners’ wives waiting for the clinic to make their dreams come true has risen, hospital officials said.

Alaa Badarneh / EPA, file

Dalal Rabaya holds her son Mohannad at a hospital in the West Bank town of Nablus on Aug. 13.

They all face the same, daunting obstacle. Typically a prisoner visitor will pass through an airport style scanner, a body search, and then be asked to leave all their possessions in a locker before they get to see their relative. And then they will be separated by glass and speak only by phone.

According to the Israel Prison Service these are near-miraculous conceptions.

“Due to technological and security restrictions that apply to prisoners in their relationship with family members, one can question the ability to smuggle as claimed,’’ Sivan Weizman, spokeswoman for the Prison Authority, said dryly.

If Abu Khaizaran has any idea how samples get from prison cell to fertility clinic, he’s not telling. But the hospital insists on the written word of two close family members that the sperm is indeed that of the husband, he said.

A black-and-white screen showed the outline of a baby in the womb. The loud and rapid beat of its heart reverberated in the fertility clinic’s small ultrasound room.

“This is the head of the baby. And there’s its hand. He’s moving. It’s a boy. Fifteen weeks,” Abu Khaizaran told mother-to-be Lidya Al-Rimawi who had come in for her first scan. “Everything looks fine.’’

Like all the women NBC interviewed, Al-Rimawi was coy when asked how she managed to evade Israeli prison guards and their searches.

“We found much difficulty. But despite the security checks we got through, thanks to God,” she said.

“Each case is different from another,’’ she said when pressed for more detail. “We smuggled it out in a bag, a small nylon bag. But it is difficult to explain how.”

“If I told you the way we smuggled it, definitely the army will prevent it from happening and there are prisoners we don’t want to deprive of this same chance.’’

She beamed as she looked at the image of the fast-growing baby inside her.

“It is a very beautiful feeling,’’ she said. “It is a feeling that cannot be described. It is a miracle.’’

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Some of you said a new terrorist baby is born!! So please explain what Israel has been doing since 1918 in Palestine?

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Reply#290 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 7:43 PM EST

Fending off suicide bombers and rocket attacks from the west bank maybe?

Palestine (a joke considering they're Arab refugees from many lands) had an oportunity in the 1930s for peace and land of their own. In their arrogance, they refused the offer and subsequently were defeated in the ensuing conflict.

Seriously, you ask for peace and land after getting your butt kicked when it was offered on a silver platter? Too many epiteths come to mind how stupid these people are.

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#290.1 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 7:58 PM EST

Amen. LiarsInPolitics

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#290.2 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:16 PM EST

What Israel has been doing since 1918 in Palestine?

No such place as a "Nation of Palestine". That was invented by Arafat, the Egyptian.

Right not it is Mon, Feb 25, 2013, or in the Jewish Calendar it's 15 Adar, 5773

That pre-dates 1918 by many, many years.

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#290.3 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:24 PM EST
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Then onto the USA to be raised as a American if Obama gets his way with his immigration bill.

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Reply#291 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 7:43 PM EST

i really laugh when i read all these stupid comments the ones that make that make them racist comments they dont like no race from black to yellow they even hate there race they are true racist dirt bags

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Reply#292 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 7:44 PM EST

i been to Israel and they dont like us americans they hate jesus so the palestine ppl there are harmless Israeli target schools and homes and seen them kill innocent ppl i couldn't stay there for long.

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Reply#293 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 7:57 PM EST

I have to raise the BS flag on that post. I have been there and you have not. The last time I was there, I had zero problems associating with the locals and culture. The Arabs on the other hand do hate us with a passion. Even when I was in Kuwait, it was obvious the hatred from them even when we were there to protect them.

Otherwise, which airport did you fly into? Please enlighten me. Just as I thought, you lied.

From your post, you're barely literate and couldn't possibly have been anywhere.

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#293.1 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:11 PM EST
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Little Johnny Jihad has something to look forward to, and is in complete denial that his betrothed is banging her first cousin whilst he's spanking his uncircumsized monkey to photos of the family milk goat into a Dixie cup.

Now we know why there is no such thing as "Virgin Wool" in Arabia.

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Reply#294 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:04 PM EST

that story compares with world war II stories where G.I's wife's were having 11 and 12 month term pregnancy's

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Reply#295 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:08 PM EST

biffster proves he is a true low life so does others like liars in politics

    Reply#296 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:09 PM EST

    Just calling you a liar. Low life?

    How does spewing your anti-semitic drivel not make you one?

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    #296.1 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:14 PM EST
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    I'm thinking that the Israeli intelligence community knew about this scam all along and switched the prisoner's little men for some better gene stock, possibly their own.

    That would poetic justice indeed!

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    Reply#297 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:14 PM EST

    That would be interesting!!

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    #297.1 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:36 PM EST

    But it would still be the same Semitic stock.

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    #297.2 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:44 PM EST
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    so the pali bitc$ is breeding a new crop lets treat her as her husband does to others

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    Reply#298 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:18 PM EST

    What about the basic right of those who were bombed by the terrorist who is in jail, to live and be with families they already had?

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    Reply#299 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:22 PM EST

    Life is so important to the terrorists that kill innocent people, what hippocrates.

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    Reply#300 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:25 PM EST

    LMAO. They think they are the father... until they get a paternity test done.

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    Reply#301 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:28 PM EST

    Disgusting and ridiculous, to allow these criminals to think their sperm is SO precious. Put a stop to it. They lost their right to procreate when they got themselves jailed, doesn't matter who they are.

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    Reply#302 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:30 PM EST

    Oh my NBC news this is a whopper of confusion here or down right BS. The article says once they cannot have children the husbands remarry not go to IVF clinics. Why would Palestinians on the West Bank have these clinics? This is a joke to try to annoy Israel and make Palestine sound intelligent. I'm sick of hearing how they are forced to 3rd or 4th world status as they text pics with iPhones and now have IVF clinics. BTW, do they only blame the women at these clinics? Wouldn't a real Muslim man have to kill the doctor if he suggests the man is the cause? I suggest the truth here is that someone in the family impregnated these women and someone more western is trying to save them from being stoned to death in honor killings.

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    Reply#303 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:31 PM EST

    That has happened at US jails as well.

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    Reply#304 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:35 PM EST
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    Oh, goody more new terrorists and suicide bombers coming into the world. Hate will live on.

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    Reply#305 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:48 PM EST

    Sorry to say this, but, yes, let's keep that bad sperm going! Meh!

    We are doing a great job of proliferation of racists, homophobes, pedophiles, rapists, drug dealers, and killers ourselves. We wouldn't want to have a society where people care about one another and protect women and children, would we? That would just be too much to ask.

      #305.1 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 9:21 PM EST
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      If the prisoners are terrorists, then they may be making future terrorists by giving births outside of the prisons by using with their sons/daughters to carry out their terrorism plans. The kids may avenge for their fathers when they grow up. Please wake up people! It's not as simple as you think. Just put yourselves in their shoes. What would you do if your dads were terrorists and put in jails? You'd hate whoever put your dads in jails, and you'll probably take revenge for him.

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      Reply#306 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 8:58 PM EST

      "But mom..."

      "Shut up and jack off into the vial..!"

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      Reply#307 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 9:08 PM EST

      I don't think she carried it out that way at all......yuck!!!

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      #307.1 - Mon Feb 25, 2013 12:20 AM EST
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      Sorry to say this, but, yes, let's keep that bad sperm going! Meh!

      We are doing a great job of proliferation of racists, homophobes, pedophiles, rapists, drug dealers, and killers ourselves. We wouldn't want to have a society where people care about one another and protect women and children, would we? That would just be too much to ask.

        Reply#308 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 9:11 PM EST

        You know that if a girl is raped there by a married man she will be put on trial for adultery but, the man will not. She will be sent to prison for her crimes.....

        And if a girl is raped but the man says he will marry her afterwards, he does not go to jail for the rape!

        That's how the get justice there.....or don't get!

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        #308.1 - Mon Feb 25, 2013 12:25 AM EST
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        O what a blessed event! We now have another shahid ready to be a martr like his uncle mucchamid mustafa osama kamil ishkabibble.......You now these crazy kids are these days, they blow up so fast.....I'm sure this kid can't wait to throw acid in a women's face or kill 15 people while yelling Allah Akbar or perhaps issuing a 7th century fatwa against people who don't grow their beard just like muchammad...O yea, isn't mooshlems and Islam the religion of peace???

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        Reply#309 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 9:20 PM EST

        Just thinking....she is 32, he has been in for 16 years. Married young. Nothing wrong with that, different culture. How old is he? Story didn't say. Oh well. Have delt w/ IVF. Sperm could survive. If a window between them on visits, still not sure how the transaction went down. I assume a Guard inspects everything passed between them. I'm sure that Prison Authorities are looking into it and heads will roll. Leave it to Liberal based media outlet like NBC to label Isreal as a "Regime" . By the way, I am not a big fan of FOX news or any other cable or nathional news either. They all have their political bias and make "news" from the side they want to spin.

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        Reply#311 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 9:53 PM EST
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        vaginal storage?

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        Reply#313 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 10:07 PM EST

        Hmmmmm................they are not allowed to remove headscarf due to religion. No body search upon exit? Check under scarf.

          Reply#314 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 10:29 PM EST

          In U.S., prison guards, have been impregnated by prisoners. The old saying, when there is a will, there is a way, stands today. Sperm may be heartier than scientists believe.

            Reply#315 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 10:37 PM EST

            The Womans only form of security is with a first born son,this makes her the dominant wife and preserves her position in the clan.True hard core Muslims believe women are impure and the Messiah shall be born from a male,figure the rest.

              Reply#316 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 10:37 PM EST

              thats not true. the only people who perceive women as impure are hard core Hassidim jews.

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              #316.1 - Sun Feb 24, 2013 10:46 PM EST
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